Are we all shy?

I have noticed that whenever i meet people or given the oppertunity to introduce myself, it's usually not the other that makes the initiative... but can you imagine what our world would be like if we didn't even try?

Taken from newsweek: There is this concept place where the men and women are seperated in to 2 different sections with a transparent glass to observe each other... they would then buys each otehr drinks and send messages such as phone no.s or other contacts through the waiters.

Ok this maybe extreme, but until we learn that we aren't going to get anything until we actually attempt it. We can just go on about dreaming about a coleague at work or that girl you always see hanging around college, or that cure guy with the buns. Until you try, you would be walking around in life with alot of "what if"s. Go out and meet people and have the guts to introduce yourself.

I just asked a girl what a good pickup line would be. She said just start with "hi" and if it's really cheesy she might actually laugh it up and actually give her name. But come on seriously, what have you got to lose? at least you would have a new friend, or an adrenaline rush for trying. You have nothing to lose.

So just start with the basics..... hi....